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well about me...i am funny and cheeky sometimes naughty...;P
but i have a big heart....and big boobs..and butt...and yeah everything big on me...i am BBW...so if you looking for skinny and boney..i am definitely not for you...Gents so avoid to confusion , im to halfway somewhere Nigella Lawson and Dawn French...:P ... well if still interested... .. because just gays and lesbians friends are around me for looong long time...)...getting forget, what is real sex and fun ...and already really miss the young straight tall guys with strong arms and "straight c*ck" ... for some fun...:D

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I have a pretty relaxed view about life, I am open minded enough to try most things at least once!! I can be a bit shy at first but do warm up nicely! I do have dry sense of humour and I'm not afraid to display it either.
I am looking to have a bit more fun in my life, with someone who has a similar view to life,with a brain, strong & fun character who will give as good as he gets..because I will!! Sorry but no married\ with partner, and if you can't be bothered to put a photo, then why should I be??

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Hi Guys.....I am a bubbly blonde who has a positive outlook on life. I am genuine...and believe that total honesty is the best policy. If you are looking for a slim model figure looking lass then I am not for you....I have more of the curvaceous look. I am not interested in meeting guys that are married or into one night stands and definitely no timewasters. I like to get to know someone first and take things from there...thank you for looking at my profile. If you like what you read....be good to hear from you. If not, I wish you every success in your search. xx

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im a woman looking for a man as a friend , to go out with have some fun when out with friends

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OK time for a change.... I've been on this site for a number of months now and am lucky enough to have met some decent non time wasting people, which appears to be a rarity on here. One of them has now become a regular and is now my Master in a D/s relationship and I am now an owned sub.
But we are now looking for a younger male / female sub that I can switch and experience switching with and being in a role other than sub. We would want to meet in a social setting first to see if we click and if we move on from there. I am not looking to change my current relationship just to add another dimension to it.

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Hi, I am an Arab bubbly proud curvy girl, open minded with a lot of sense of humour and sarcasm is my 4th language. I'm looking for a regular someone who i can connect with...someone who is funny and open minded that i can call a friend and share everything with. Sex is not my first priority here i don't interact with anyone until i get to know them mentally first i think attraction is important. I do like good company and sometimes a snuggle and a good movie that does not involve sex but you never know anything can happen. Other than that i love a good laugh, i don't mind going out to cinema or a day out also am kind of a geek lol always on my PS3 and into science fiction also enjoy a good book. If you want to know more or just say hi don't be shy :) i don't bite ( or do i?) hehe P.S if i dont reply don't be offended i am a very busy woman , i'm not ignoring you xxxx New update! I won't reply to anyone who is married or in a relationship! Don't bother messaging me...

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"Hi there, Trixie here ;). Well I get stuck for something to put in these Bio things so I suppose if you want to know anything just ask me. I'd say I'm an exhibitionist! I couldn't live without sex, honestly I have to have it as often as possible! a lot of people call me "the controller" as I love to control and dominate and I'm proud of that because I'm out doing what I love the most ;) I have a lot of experience and love to tease so would like to think of myself as yummy teaser ;)!

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i'm looking for someone who is fun loving, enjoys going out and has a great sense of humor. Seeking Tall, handsome white male must be available weekends. Aged between 30 and 46 I'm currently separated and in the process of getting divorced so looking for someone to have some fun with, who must be discreet. Not looking for a one night stand! So if that's all you want please keep on looking! I enjoy (well most of the time!) keeping fit, so would prefer someone that is the same!

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My names Amanda, im 60, and looking for a long term relationship, still very sexy, but have to get to know partner first before any naughtiness, comforts important , lifes short and precious. Im of curvacious build so if your looking for olive oil , please pass me by , more like dawn french , perhaphs a bit smaller .X I really would like to .meet someone to share my life with as in long term, looking for someone to love me and to love back ..Not really looking for the odd encounter,or my wife dosent understand my needs bit. Just wanted to hopefully meet a man that also wants long term who is lkind and understanding and willing not to rush you into bed the first time you meet him , but talk and get to know each other. I have had a dvt in my right leg which has caused permanent damage to the blood restriction , causing leg to swell and ache at times and mobility a little slower than average,IM a completley honest , bubbly , girlie type of lady , as you can see all woman lol. Sadly i dont drive and would be nice...

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Want to know what a BIG dick feels like, more than six inches & thick

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Respectable foreign lady looking for a little fun wither it be texting, emails or casual hook ups or what ever else I might stumble upon. I am very specific in what I am looking for so if you don't get a response from me don't take it personally. Drop me a line and lets see where this go's. *STRICT SINGLE MEN ONLY POLICY*

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Fun girl looking to chat and see what happens . No picture as seen people from work etc and don't really want them knowing on hear so . Picture maybe sent on request . Anything else just let me know

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My names Amanda, im 60, and looking for a long term relationship, still very sexy, but have to get to know partner first before any naughtiness, comforts important , lifes short and precious. Im of curvacious build so if your looking for olive oil , please pass me by , more like dawn french , perhaphs a bit smaller .X I really would like to .meet someone to share my life with as in long term, looking for someone to love me and to love back ..Not really looking for the odd encounter,or my wife dosent understand my needs bit. Just wanted to hopefully meet a man that also wants long term who is lkind and understanding and willing not to rush you into bed the first time you meet him , but talk and get to know each other. I have had a dvt in my right leg which has caused permanent damage to the blood restriction , causing leg to swell and ache at times and mobility a little slower than average,IM a completley honest , bubbly , girlie type of lady , as you can see all woman lol. Sadly i dont drive and would be nice...

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....not looking for a relationship....just someone too meet up with as and when it is suitable for some fun. No face pic due too situation.

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First things first, im in an open relationship. Not looking to meet, just to chat Just be honest guys it goes a long way, thanks. Guys when i say im not interested it means what it says, im not being rude, just dont keep messaging me asking me why i wont talk to you or why im not interested... thank you and good luck with your search.

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I'm 34 and single, I enjoy a laugh, a bit of flirting and naughty chat. Am genuine and looking for a regular meet, if anything further develops then so be it, I'm not against a relationship if the right person came along and it felt right! If you're interested drop me a message PS I'd rather NOT be contacted by married men...

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Where do I start, I have the curves of kelly brook, still interested?
I'm clean
I'm discreet
I'm fun
I'm attractive
I like the gym
I love good sex
I'm adventurous
I'm submissive, occasionally dominant :-)
If you are at least 3 of the above then text me and see what happens .
Also I work long hours in the medical profession, so would like to meet someone that's ok with that, looking for NSA fun x

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I'm 34 and single, I enjoy a laugh, a bit of flirting and naughty chat. Am genuine and looking for a regular meet, if anything further develops then so be it, I'm not against a relationship if the right person came along and it felt right! If you're interested drop me a message PS I'd rather not be contacted by married men...

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Feel the need to update my profile. I am looking for a fwb in the hope it leads too more,i am not looking too sleep with loads of men and if I do meet the right man for me and it's regular then they are welcome at my home but I'm not looking for every tom dick and harry to come to my house as it's not going to b a shagging den its my home so sorry if your just looking to come round for a quick bit of fun its not going to happen and im not looking to have sex on the 1st meet so please only message if u want the same.

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Ok, well I've been single for 4 years now after a very long relationship. Took me a while to get used to it but loving the single life now.
I work hard and enjoy my free time but would like to share some of that time with someone. I'm not looking for a husband or even a partner although I would consider that if the right man came along, but I'm not looking for a quick shag either. I am just looking for a friend to spend good quality time with and to share some intimacy with. I like live music, theatre, cinema, eating out and travelling but am equally happy being at home in good company. If you like what you see and read please feel free to contact me. P.s guys I really don't like cock pics. I would much rather see pics of your face. Also please don't add me as a favourite if you haven't contacted me first.

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I'm an attractive BBW :)
ONLY message me if you are attracted to BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMEN!
Like guys who are preferably cut and shaved.
Loves to hear about your fantasies, find it a huge turn on.
We have to connect sexually through chat first, there'll be no meeting otherwise.
Likes role play.
Loves sexy chat.
Loves flirting and teasing ;)
If you're a gentleman outside the bedroom with a naughty kinky side in it, say hello ;)
If you know an attractive Bi BBW girl who would like to play or you're a Bi guy, message me too ;) Winks don't work ;)
If I don't reply quickly be patient :)
If I politely say "not interested" please don't message me again.

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Well...Im an easy going sexy chick, enjoy having good company and i dont take life too seriously sometimes...u only live once!. I would like to meet and get to know confident men,generious,exciting and full of life. Xxx

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I'm 5 ft 10 fun loving caring person,requires tall man to make me smile
Please no time wasters I'm fed up with them
Dinner and drinks out
Please if you have a photo that was taken more than 3 yrs ago please remove it off the site
No one wants to meet someone that doesn't look truthful to their photo
Oh and don't lie about your height or age !!!!
I'm here to meet someone for a regular thing
I'm not into bed hopping

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Been here before and looking again...
In an open relationship.
Larger lady.
Love oral I could lay back and let you taste me for hours
Like to do a social meet first.
Just be honest guys it goes a long way, thanks. Just starting to dip my toes in the pond again:-) Guys when i say im not interested it means what it says, im not being rude, just dont keep messaging me asking me why i wont talk to you or why im not interested... thank you and good luck with your search.

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Oh the needs of sexy tri sexual lol Where are all the beautiful women ? Hello to one an all Happy at home my fella lives with me an yes before u ask he knows im on here ,hense he is perfect ,SO?
Im a scatty open minded ,I get bored to easy drives me mental ,so im here as its different but how long for whos knowsx, witty but VERY shy . Sometimes with a hint of impulsiveness . Apparently hard to talk to due my shyness . But my attention needs to be got at , so good luck with that ,as it wont be easy, but would be fun . He/she who dares Be persistent an witty .only local people not much point in long distance friendships unless otherwise ?i dont mean to offend but unless im curious i may not reply to all x Also no fatties or oldies need apply my vanity will not allow sorry xx

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Hi I am kayla a very voluptuous 39 years old who loves using her mouth.

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Love sex which is why I'm on a risqu site, but do only want it within a relationship. Some of the sites on here are only about casual encounters but that's not for me. Would like just one regular lover, nothing heavy, not looking for the love of my life, but do want to be able to see an assertive, confident guy regularly thanks to the (frustratingly!) high libido.
Be nice to go out with them too, perhaps to live jazz venues (or is that a step too far lol?) but certainly where we can engage in some lively intelligent conversation.
Not into threesomes etc, nor guys who smoke, or much younger men plus as I want an honest relationship not interested if you're married or living with someone. I've met some really nice genuine guys through being on here, and been out with a few. I like to live life hopefully, so as not seeing anyone at the moment, I'm back here, looking and chatting - but to be clear not interested in just chat, am on here to meet someone.

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Details:- Lives in Essex Im 5ft 2 with green eyes and brunette or plum coloured hair curvy 38g (real) Wicked sense of humour Bi Sexual (only play with another fem if she's with her partner,,, but love mmf. mmmf) Little about me:- I speak my mind and I am abrupt and this often offends but im not here to be bull shit or to be bullshitted, I say it how it is, im the same on here as I am in person(Get over it).
Im a gusher and a nympho for the right person :) Looking for:- Sexy, Fit men with tattooe's (not always),
Non Players, No smokers and after a local guy, He's gotta mentally n physically turn me on too am bi if the right female comes along I DON'T Accom/ Nor do I drive :( (Not single either) Don't bother talking if your going waste my time as I hate time waster who say they will meet and bottle it,, my time is precious, just like me!

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I am looking for some no strings attached fun while my husband is at work and possibly later on someone to join us in some threesome fun

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Interested in mild fetish, a little spanking, toys, but not serious bondage. love giving or receiving oral. and have the most sensitive nipples so any attention (from hand, mouth or clamp) is welcome!
Looking to try some new fun, would love to share some horny emails. NSA but like to be treated like a lady!

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Hello I'm looking for some sex fun, no hassle, no strings, no relationship. I would like regular sex with one person but if that's not what you want and we click then a one off is fine. So lets see how we get on drop me a message

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Interested in meeting up with the ineresting, adventurous and experienced. I am shy, but I have a burning desire to experiment in and experience life ;)

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hi xx i have recently walked away from a very unhappy marriage, im enjoying being single so am not looking for anything too serious, but a string of one night stands really arent my thing either. looking for just one guy to rediscover and explore and have some sexy fun with.

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hi there, not too sure what im looking for but maybe have a chat, dates and just see what happens, i have no set rules just go with the flow.
I dont look at my winks so if you want to make contact best way is to send me a message ok update!
i wont respond to those without a pic also manners cost nothing so i appreciate those who send polite messages as appose to those who send messages like "fancy a fuck" also it does take a long time to get through messages on a daily basis and sometimes i do aaccidentally miss some, this isnt personal!

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Ok a little about me... well i'm a 32 year old female, Only seeking no strings attached. I have not got a picture on display due to personal reasons but i'm not hideously ugly and will provide a picture if i feel interested enough in you ;-)
I'm looking for a friend as well as a lover, someone i can just chill out with and have a laugh with as well as having great sex obviously hehe I am a plus size lady size 16-18 so if that's not your thing please keep on looking. And please send me a message if you want to contact me not just a wink!

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Looking for a proper man! Decent conversation and a laugh. The man needs to be very capable and assertive.
I'm not interested in being a cougar so no one under 30 please. And on the same token no fossils either. 50 ish the max. I will not respond to a hi or a how's you. I prefer tall men over 5'10!
Apart from that I'm a good laugh and keen to broaden my horizons

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Looking for someone local( must be very local ) for regular discreet meets. I'm not married just in a long term relationship ( don't judge a book by it's cover). Looking for someone that doesn't come with a health warning and can hold a conversation. Thanks

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Big and Beautiful , what can i say about myself well i will let you decide that , if you message me if you........ DARE ........... to look at my profile Mmmmm. i have a GSOH so come on look .
Also no time wasters please if you are not serious then please do not contact me

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I'm a happy curvy sexy lady looking to meet a regular partner, so we can share good times together and have all the fun along the way that comes with it. I like to spend weekends with a guy and spend as much time as possible in bed!! I love to eat nice meals together and drink lots of good wine, I can hold a good conversation and will make you laugh, I'm good company and have been known to be very naughty!
I don't respond to winks, so best to message me if you like what you see!! I prefer men around my own age please!! As flattering as it is to have so many messages from you young men, it's not what I want. I am genuine and expect the same.

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I want a Tall, (preferably 6ft+ or at least taller than me! Lol x ), Handsome, Attractive, Good looking and Rugged looking White Male. Must have Athletic, Toned Body...and Sexy as hell! Chemistry as well as Mental Stimulation is also a must! ...Plus if you can accommodate..would be good!! Boo hoo..seems every I talk to ..or like they can't accomodate!! WTF!! Please if you contact me wishing to talk..please just talk...2 or 3 hours in between responses is ridiculous and shows a blatant disregard to the other party..and shows you're not really interested! I am Not looking 4 just a quick bunk up or 1 night stand...just 1 person..to regularly bunk up with. Lol x Just wanting 1 Man to Play with me and likewise...every now and then ; ) x .......Sorry no married men, or men with girlfriends allowed! Also if you have no profile picture....You will get no response..Sorry. ... And b4 I forget...No time wasters..I haven't got the time 4 it! . Why oh WHY are there no genuine men out there!? Please NO BULLSHITTERS just wanting fun, to get their kicks or thrills online...but when it comes down to it...YOU can't deliver in person!!!...or you can't...

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I'm looking for something casual but ongoing with a single guy.
Like a lot of people here I don't have much spare time so like to spend it having fun. I'm looking for someone fairly local, preferably London/Essex. Not interested in one night stands, prefer friends with benefits, someone I can go out & have a laugh with too.

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Young grounded girl bisexual and have a bisexual boyfriend we are both very discreet in our fun together or apart and love to have sex as much as possible xx so if anyone wants to play with either of us or both then get in touch , he is 28 x

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Im not going to answer anyone if they dont have a face pic. its good to see your face first thanks

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I'm 35 single I'm
A nice girl
Looking for friendship love and sex
And something more

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I am married iwant to cuckold my husband when I go out to meet u I will be dressed smart but. Will have stocking and bauqea on but no panty on I am busty wiith big nipple and good sense of humour

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I'm very outgoing, very attractive, love the gym and of course great sex!!! Don't really have time to meet a lot of people out because of my job.

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